What can you do to help during a tragedy, after a shooting, or act of terror? As our nation feels the pain again of senseless shootings and precious lives lost – it’s easy to feel like there’s nothing you can do. Oh, but I challenge you to think again! Let me show you how you can make a difference and we can use this crisis as an opportunity to bring help and hope.

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“The first and last task of a leader is to keep hope alive–the hope that we can finally find our way through to a better world–despite the day’s action, despite our own intertness and shallowness and wavering resolve.” -John W. Gardner, former secretary of health, education, and welfare.

Hope is the foundation of change. If we continue to hold hope high, and we help others do the same, there is always a chance to move forward and succeed.

In times of tragedy and crisis, know this:

1. Crisis holds the opportunity to be reborn.
2. Difficult times can discipline us to become stronger.
3. Conflict can actually renew our chances of building better relationships.

It’s not always easy to remember these things. As leaders, our job is to remind people of the possibilities and to help them succeed.

Get out there and spread hope. Take the lead. Be the change and make our world a better place. This crisis can and will be an opportunity for us to be reborn. But only if we take it.

Will you?

-Dr. Linda Travelute
Leadership & Personal Growth Doctor
Of The John Maxwell Team

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If you’ve ever remodeled your house while you’re still trying to live there, you know how crazy it is…

– walking by things that are out of order
– dodging ladders standing in the living room
– tripping over paint cans in the hallway
– unable to use the bathroom because the toilet’s been ripped out to make room for a new one…
– searching for something you swore you saw but now it’s gone?! Help!!!

Ahh, the pains and JOYS of remodeling. You have to put up with the chaos until the work is done.

Well, that’s what we’re doing to make our site more enjoyable for you – so yesterday and all last week, you had to put up with a little of that, my apologies. BUT…when the site is fully ready…it’s gonna sizzle and you’re going to LOVE it!

You’ll enjoy a new multimedia experience, easier access to the things that are important to you, such as videos, podcast episodes, helpful tools, audios, and articles that will infuse you with hope, and help you be more and do more.

There will be some new surprises like live webinars, (oops, not much of a surprise now, huh?) full width sliders, easier navigation, animated content boxes, full page training videos… in a beautiful new home you and I will be able to connect in.

I’m so excited!!! I’ll be emailing you soon, if you’re one of my subscribers, to let you know when it’s done. Then you can come over and enjoy the new place. Till then, you can still visit, you’ll just have to excuse the crazy “text” and “objects” that don’t make much sense, kind of like the ladders and paint cans that are in the middle of the floor.

If you want to be one of the first to know when it’s finished as well as get other value packed content that “regular” visitors don’t get, click here to join our community. Then you’ll be be ahead of the line and privy to any give-a-ways, gifts, and special offers first.

Want to be a part of my remodeling team? If you have any ideas on how we can make the site look better, navigate better, or be more user-friendly, please contact me here with your suggestions. Any thoughts on how we can serve you better are appreciated. Thanks for being a part! Together we are going to make a difference in people’s lives.

I can’t wait till it’s done so you can receive more valuable information that will help YOU create the life and faith YOU love!

Dr. Linda Travelute

Your Hope-Dealer

Hope.

Where do you find it when you’ve run out of it?

If you are at your lowest or maybe hope is slowly leaking out of your being, this video will show you that yes, no matter who you are or what you’ve done, God cares about you. In fact…you just might want to be on the lookout today for an angel!

That’s what happened to this woman who jumped into a taxi on the way to her suicide location.

Watch this quick video for your dose of hope.

Be a hope dealer and share! 

What Can A Dog Teach You About Hope? So glad you asked! If you’ve been hit with nothing but bad news over and over and over again, you’re probably finding it hard to keep hoping.

Maybe you’ve been given a horrible diagnosis, news that you owe more on your taxes than you expected, news that your parents are getting a divorce…fill in your blank.

You’re probably wondering how you’ll be able to keep believing in God to provide the miracle you desperately need. Enter Murphy.

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Murphy’s a golden doodle, who had cancer and nothing but bad doctor reports over and over again. But listen and learn how Michelle and Mike, her owners, learned to dig in and hang on to hope for Murphy’s miracle.

It wasn’t always an easy walk of faith, in fact they ALMOST GAVE UP. See if you can relate…

Listen in on the podcast: “Christianity Made Easy” and you’ll discover like Michelle did, that just because you’re weak emotionally, doesn’t mean your weak in your faith.”

Click below to listen or catch it on iTunes.

Use the podcast player above.

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If you want to stay in touch with Murphy follow her on Instagram: Miracle_Girl_Murphy.

IMG_1977Here's Murphy before Dr. Mike and Michelle learned she had cancer(top left), Murphy post surgery (bottom left, see her lump?) and ...."Miracle Murphy" on the right.

If you need a dose of hope, you'll find this little book I wrote an exceptional resources: Finding Your Smile in Hard Times. Get it on Amazon here. It will help you flip into peace mode when life is difficult.

When the crap hits the fan, where do you hide? Or maybe a better question is, what do you do? How do you as a Christian believer, face an all-out attack from the enemy?

You know he’s going to try, right? Try to pull you down. Try to get you to give up. Try to get you to abandon the hopes and dreams that you’ve had.

  • What will your response be the next time he strikes?
  • What did you do the last time the devil tried to attack you?

If you sense the enemy is trying to assault you right now, whether it be in your finances, your health, your relationships, your workplace, or elsewhere, watch this short video I prepared for you and you’ll learn…

What every believer needs to know about overcoming an attack.

After viewing this, you’ll know exactly what to do so you can reach your dreams and your destiny.

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Share this with a friend who needs a boost. 

This is Everett.

I’ve known Everett since he was a kid. A messed up kid. But a sweet one.

He’s always had a soft spot in my heart…you know, some people just work their way in.

And when you see them, no matter how messed up they are, you just want to reach out and hug them, and say, “Come on, when you gonna get a clue that this lifestyle isn’t for you…”

That crossed my mind every time I saw Everett.

I’d see him at Publix bagging groceries. I’d see him posting pics on Facebook partying with his friends. And yep, Everette got lost. Really lost. Lost to…

Drugs, Alcohol, all kinds of stuff you’d think he’d never get out of.

But then something happened.

Watch his video and know there is hope…even for the ones you think may never get a clue…

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The Secret Cure for Disappointment
Disappointed.

You’re ticked aren’t ya?

I don’t blame you.

You had it all figured out.

You thought it would be better than this.

This stinks. It’s ok that you are mad. I’d be mad too.

Let me show you how you can keep disappointment from ever touching you again.

That’s a bold statement, huh?

Try me. This works.

You can have your money back if it doesn’t.

Oh, wait, you’re getting this advice for free. Good, then you have nothing to lose. Come with me for a minute. Let’s discuss the CURE for disappointment. It will be well worth your time.

Ready to Eat?

Imagine I invite you over for dinner. I seat you at my table decked out in the finest my dish closet has to offer. I place a napkin in your lap and explain that you are about to enjoy a delicious seven-course meal. Backwards.

That’s right. We start with dessert. From there we make our way backwards toward the main course, salad, hors d’oeuvres, and everything in-between.

Dessert first! Cool! But by the time you get to the main course you are so full you can’t enjoy the caviar. So you’re a little miffed. And you’re disappointed with my way of doing things.

This didn’t go the way you thought it would. It started out ok. It sure looked like fine dining according to plan. But hey, things got out of order. And looking at it in reverse, with an upset stomach, leaves you an unhappy camper. And an unhappy diner. Hold on, I’ll get you some Rolaids.

Here’s another scenario.

The man or woman of your dreams sent your heart a pitter-pattering. First came courtship. Marriage. And oh, count ‘em, three baby carriages.

Years later your heart takes a dip. It plunges to the lowest place on earth. The spouse of your dreams morphs into the spouse you hate. It started with the affair. You were cheated on, not once, but twice. No way! You didn’t sign up for that. Your soul mate ripped your soul out and your heart is in shreds.

Disappointed. No one can imagine. This is not the marriage you had in mind. You’re irate. You’ve been rejected. The pain is like an avalanche that snows you under.

Let’s go back to the table.

Remember, you’re the guest at MY table. What I say goes. We do the meal as I have designed, not how you have imagined.

Let me ask, “What other table do you belly up to?” Did I hear you say, “God’s?” You eat from His table? Here’s the difference between my table, your table, and God’s table.

If you’re the guest at your own table, you can do the meal as you please. But here’s the rub. When you’re sitting at God’s table, He’s boss. And guess what? You’re not excused until the meal is over. You have to eat whatever God puts in front of you. Even if you don’t think you can stomach it. Even if the meal is too long. You have no choice. God’s the chief cook and bottle washer here.

So what do you do to ensure disappointment isn’t the feast at your table? Here’s what you’ve been waiting for, the cure for disappointment:

Revamp your expectations!

Sometimes we expect unrealistic things. Things that were never in the plan for us.

How do you know if your expectation is unrealistic? Answer: If it doesn’t become real.

Now, I’m not saying you need to throw away the promises of God. Not at all. God will make good on His
promises. But sometimes we get what God promises mixed up with what we want God to promise us.

So then, we need to revamp our expectations. If we adjust our expectations, we will save ourselves disappointment. It’s that simple. Not easy. But it will save you heartache.

How do you revamp your expectations?

Shoot for something lower? No, just be open to things not going according to how you planned.

So how do you revamp your expectations and still have faith?

Expect the best. Hope for the best. FAITH for the best.

But know sometimes you will be shortchanged in your eyes. Only because you don’t always know what’s best. Therefore, we expect what we think is best, not what God thinks is best. Only God knows, and He doesn’t always tell. Sometimes God serves hors d’oeuvres and the salad last.

And wouldn’t it be easier to trust that if God starts out with dessert, it would be a good thing? Whatever whacked way He does things is gonna be to your benefit.

How do I know? Because “The Lord will withhold no good thing from those who do what is right.” (Psalm 84:11b NLT)

God is not holding out on you.

Even if the order is messed up.

Even if what He puts on your plate tastes crappy.

Even if He serves up something you don’t like.

God is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him (Hebrews 11:6 NLT). Seek Him, and you will be feasting on the exact course for your life at the right time, even if you don’t realize it at that moment.

Even if you’re confused about the dish that’s in front of you, you can feast on what you didn’t expect without being disappointed.

How? Because you have revamped your expectations. Which means you will no longer be disappointed.

That’s it. You’re cured.

You’ll be ok. God said so.

Give me your feedback. Let’s talk about this. Leave your comments in the reply section. Talk to you soon!


13 Guaranteed Ways to Make Yourself Sad

  1. Think about what you don’t have.
  2. Focus on what someone didn’t do for you.
  3. Think about what other’s have that you don’t.
  4. Compare yourself to others.
  5. Replay stupid things you’ve done over and over again in your mind.
  6. Stay angry.
  7. Sulk about how unfair life is.
  8. Refuse to forgive.
  9. Complain.
  10. Complain some more.
  11. Continue to review your hurts over and over again.
  12. Beat yourself up.
  13. Think about how miserable you are.

Proverbs 13:12 says,

Hope deferred makes the heart sick.

If you’re deferring hope (which is exactly what you’re doing when you engage in any of the above activities), you’re doing exactly what the Bible tells you to do to be sad. Congrats!

You CAN think yourself sad. Go for it. It will work for you.

Then when you’re sick of being sad…click on this link to read a great post:  4 Bad Mood Busters 

Or watch this video if you really want to know how to be happy. Click here:  How to be Happy When Life Bites!!

Got any other ways you use to become sad? Leave us your list by clicking “comments” at the top. Thanks for your input!

 

No doubt you have heard Murphy’s Law so often over the years that you believe it’s true. It goes like this:

“Nothing is as easy as it looks; everything takes longer than you expect; and if anything can go wrong, it will – at the worst possible moment.”

Now, go about your day savoring that line. Chew it up, swallow it, and know what? It will be true for you.

Thanks Murphy! Thanks for filling our heads with lies that become truth. Yes, lies, lies, lies that turn true! How does this happen? The Bible gives us a clue. It says, “As a man thinks in his heart, so he is.” What this means is whatever you are thinking about becomes true for you. So now you’re stuck, right? But only because Murphy’s Law is stuck in your head. There is a way out my friend. Let me show you how to reverse Murphy’s Law in your life.

The Week from Hell

Last week was one that could have been construed as one of Murphy’s masterpieces! I knew it was going to be a brutal workweek. Lots of extra work events on my calendar equals less time for coping with stress. I was already preparing mentally for the strain of events on my family and on me personally. But then the unexpected started piling up.

My husband’s cousin died. That was tough. We made plans to travel and spend the day with family for the funeral. We also had family fly in and stay with us. Great to see them, but because of my work schedule, I had very little time to visit with them and play hostess. (It was looking like Murphy was starting to mess with me.)

Then the dishwasher decided to catch on fire. Yep, burned two holes in the door. That was exciting! So my husband, bless his sweet heart, RIGHT at dinnertime, attempts to replace the dishwasher with a new one. Which means he’s got two dishwashers pulled out into the middle of the kitchen.

Picture this: hoses, parts, tools, and water scattered all over the floor. I’m trying to quickly make dinner around this mess for my kids, a friend my daughter brought home, and out-of-town relatives. Not to mention, this was all happening one hour before I was scheduled to speak at a youth event for 500 high-energy teenagers. Try keeping your head in the game with all that going on!

So that was Monday. I could have convinced myself Murphy was working overtime, especially when Tuesday brought its own surprise.

I jumped in the car to take my teenage kids shopping and our car started jerking like it was having convulsions. I drove it home on a wing and a prayer and got a mechanic to make a house call. I had to cancel appointments and meetings I had scheduled the next day because I had no wheels, putting me further behind in my workweek.

Mechanic comes, tinkers around, and can’t figure it out. Comes back on day two, tinkers around, and can’t figure it out. I’m wondering how many more appointments am I going to have to reschedule this week? Do you see where this could go? In my head it could go south pretty fast. It almost did – until I reversed Murphy’s Law.

How You Can Reverse Murphy’s Law:

1. Tell your brain what to think. 

Yes, you can do that! What you think about is under your control IF you decide to control it. Your choice. Take it. Decide Murphy is not out to get you. He’s dead anyway, what power has he over you? None. Decide you are not going to experience events that will take you down. To throw your thoughts in reverse: back up and look at your string of events differently.

2. Ask for Divine assistance. 

Never done this before? That’s ok. Start now. Ask God to help you out of your tough spots. He is more than willing to show you He cares. And He is more than ready to show you His stuff! He can turn your circumstances around in an instant. I know. He’s done it for me. He’s got a great track record. That’s how I know I can trust what the Bible says, “What the enemy intended for evil, God meant for good.” Murphy’s got nothing on you, or me, because God can take anything and turn it around.

Too often we believe Murphy’s Law as truth instead of believing God’s law as truth. What does Murphy know? He obviously didn’t know the scripture; “All things are possible for those who believe.” So with just that verse in mind, if you tell your mind to think you are going to escape your string of circumstances, you will. It just depends on whom you’re going to believe. God, or Murphy? You choose. Then notify your brain!

So, how do you reverse Murphy’s Law? …STOP believing Murphy’s Law!

Let’s put Murphy’s Law in Reverse: “Everything is possible if you believe; things can happen in an instant; and if something can go right, have faith that it will – at the best possible moment!”

Tell yourself to chew on that the next time life throws you a curve ball and you will reverse Murphy’s Law in your life. Murphy can’t touch you…unless you let him!

Has this worked for you? Talk to us. Leave your comments below. Thanks!